You’ll Have To Forgive Me
I am finding it impossible to report on our doings at all, and the other day I realized why. I was marking down an appointment towards the end of January in my calendar, and as I looked down at the month of January, I saw that we had been in Albequerque on the 3rd.
Albequerque! Then Flagstaff, Arizona. The Grand Canyon. Phoenix. Los Angeles. Santa Cruz Mountains. San Francisco. San Jose. Sausalito. Nevada City. Tomorrow Sacramento.
It seems like ages ago we were in Albequerque, but it’s only been weeks. When we travel, we have so many new experiences, and see so many new and remarkable sights, that we’re fooled into thinking it’s been a year. Our minds aren’t used to so many different things happening in such quick succession.
So, a lot is happening. And every single day, whether we’re spending the day at the Grand Canyon or a city park, we are feeding, clothing, unclothing, reclothing, preparing food for, feeding, pottying, diapering, handwashing the dishes for, handwashing the laundry for, tooth brushing, hairbrushing, reading to, soothing, feeding, shopping for, storing the leftovers from, cleaning up after, singing lullabyes to, and feeding the seven year old, two year old, and nine month old.
There are no breaks. We’re lucky to get ourselves fed, dressed, and brushed. We’re lucky to get a few hours sleep between coaxing the last one to sleep and rising with the first one to wake.
And a walk down the block takes twenty times as long as it does for a couple without kids so all of our trips are day-long. And at least some portion of each trip will involve the kicking and screaming of one who doesn’t want to stay off the wall, out of the glass shop, or generally head in the same direction as the rest of us, so a lot of the time we spend doing the other things is also spent exercising amazing patience and deep depths of unconditional love.
And every trip requires the packing of diapers for two, wipes and a wet bag, water for all, snacks for three, spare coats/gloves/pants/hats/shoes. And this packing must occur while feeding, pottying, diapering, handwashing the dishes for, handwashing the laundry for, tooth brushing, hairbrushing, reading to, soothing, feeding, shopping for, storing the leftovers from, cleaning up after, singing lullabyes to, and feeding the seven year old, two year old, and nine month old.
Did I mention that we are also executing a musical tour, finding time to rehearse, sending out press releases, and scheduling other bands; while simultaneously running an internet business, answering daily customer communications, taking orders, mailing products, and hosting a busy Facebook page?
I have such dreams and plans. There is much I want to create and accomplish.
But, new plan. Survive right now.
Take pictures when possible and blog later.
In the meantime, will you join me on a new Facebook page for our travels? I’d love to develop Free Range Dreams into a community of people encouraging and supporting each other, sharing resources and stories, each becoming stronger by being surrounded by other dreamers who are working towards dreams . . . but as per the above, I’m going to stick with the real small and impress myself by just posting daily photos and updates on my family and our status re: exploring this great wide country!